Absence You’ve been diagnosed with cancer. What attitude should you adopt when you’re away? “I want to stay in touch but I certainly don’t want to talk about work. By email would be best. I can answer when it suits me.” “I don’t want any contact. I’m focusing on my recovery.” Announcing the diagnosis doesn’t necessarily mean you know everything about all the treatments, their duration, your time off work or when you’ll return. This may be uncomfortable for you or those around you. These two contrasting accounts show that there are a number of attitudes to adopt during your absence. It is important to consider staying in touch with your professional circle, but ultimately you decide whether or not to do so, how to do so (SMS, email, telephone), and how often. It seems important not to break off contact, since you’re still part of the team. Being aware that there’s still a place for you can lend moral support. In addition, keeping in touch during your absence makes it easier to return. 8